...took the time to know my friends.

Rather than being overprotective and making assumptions about my friends and ultimately who I was, I wish my father took the time to know my friends.

In knowing who your children's friends are, you will know your children better.

...had told me more about his childhood.

Sometimes I feel like I don't know him at all.

It's important to communicate with your children. When they have their own children, they can pass on stories. This is how we connect with the older generation.